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LETTERS for the Nov. 25 issue

By Staff | Nov 24, 2021

Support the Giving Project

In January 2022, Hawaii People’s Fund is embarking on its second leg of our Giving Project journey to radically transform the way we move money to movements for real change from the roots up. This innovative, inclusive, intentional vessel provides safe and brave spaces for collaborations between diverse groups of people, bringing together shared values, passions and abilities that center around intergenerational progress and socio-cultural wellbeing.

Giving Projects are created for individuals and families that want to strengthen their relationships, skills, understanding, leadership and purpose to support meaningful community building that is genuinely in service to our stories, places and people.

Hearkening back to our roots as a part of the Funding Exchange network, HPF joins our FEX ohana to further lift the social change model that has sustained Hawaii’s grassroots movement for 50 years.

The Giving Project interweaves a cross-class, cross-race, gender-diverse, intergenerational collective that shares a vision for a just and equitable Hawaii to apply their time, talent and resources to supporting movements for social change. The hui will work together virtually and in-person to learn about and connect with grassroots organizations here at home, deepen their understanding of Hawaii’s unique history and contemporary social justice principles, and engage in collective liberation learning and practices to amplify and illuminate social change efforts throughout our pae ‘aina.

Since 1972, Hawaii People’s Fund has given all of us an opportunity to be a part of something bigger than ourselves. HPF is the ONLY organization in the WORLD specifically addressing the needs of grassroots progressive movement builders in Hawaii.

Initially formed in response to short-sighted development efforts, economic and social disparities, and indigenous dispossession in Hawaii, our ohana has challenged these inequities by RESOURCING and ADVOCATING for those UPENDING and HEALING the effects of it.

Our Giving Project journey takes our collective efforts to the next level.

JOIN US! For more information about Giving Project 2022, visit our website or contact peoples@lava.net or consciousconcepts808@gmail.com.

HAWAII PEOPLE’S FUND

Thanksgiving: Have an attitude of gratitude

Thanksgiving is much more than a big meal with family and friends. It’s a time to reflect on, and be thankful for, all of the good things you have. It’s important to be grateful, not just on Thanksgiving, but each and every day.

Rather than lamenting what you feel is lacking in your life, begin each new day by developing an attitude of gratitude. Take inventory of your blessings and you will be surprised at just how much you have to be thankful for.

If you have enough to eat, a place to live, a way to get around, people who care about you, or people you care about, then you are wealthy. If you lack any of these elements, you must still be grateful for what you do have, while striving to obtain whatever is absent.

Focus on all positive aspects of your life. Take nothing for granted. Every morning, recharge your appreciation. Be happy for everything there is, not upset over what you feel is missing.

Dreams of the future shouldn’t diminish appreciation for the present. If all you do is concentrate on what you want, you won’t enjoy today. Don’t be jealous of others; what they do or have has no bearing on you.

You can feel bitter or resentful for a variety of reasons. Perhaps you feel something is missing from your life, things aren’t going your way, or you have been treated unfairly. You may wonder, “Why do these things always happen to me?”

Life’s problems tend to dominate your thoughts, turning your focus to what you feel is wrong. You may start to resent those who appear to be better off. You’re apt to dwell on things you think would make your life better if you had them. If only you had more money, more time, a bigger house, a different car, a different job, a different boss, had picked a different career, etc.

Once your attitude becomes one of deficiency instead of abundance and appreciation, you can become overwhelmed by feelings of frustration and feel like a victim. As this happens, a consuming vicious cycle starts.

Being bitter or resentful blows situations out of proportion. People who are bitter frequently find that their situations deteriorate, and their mental and physical health decays. It’s difficult, if not impossible, to achieve your goals while you are bitter or resentful. Regardless of what challenges might befall you, bitterness makes finding solutions much more elusive.

There is no point to feeling bitter, since it accomplishes nothing, harms you and makes things worse. Filling yourself with gratitude on a daily basis makes you feel good while driving out negative feelings.

Begin your practice of gratitude each morning as soon as you wake. Every day is a great day. If you have any doubts, try missing one. Take inventory of everything, no matter how small or seemingly insignificant, that is good in your life.

If it helps, make a written list of all things you are grateful for. Read your list every day. As you do this, you will build and reinforce your attitude of gratitude. Don’t waste any time with what you feel you don’t have.

Keep things in perspective. Consider all the people who have overcome difficulties far worse than yours. Don’t be consumed by your problems — there is always a solution. Maintaining an attitude of gratitude allows your mind to devise a resolution for your circumstances.

Make every day a day of Thanksgiving, and you will be amazed how much better your life will become.

BRYAN GOLDEN, DareToLiveWithoutLimits.com